Links, because I’m not sure I can be coherent on this right now.
From Shakesville last week, “Lessons from the rape culture” (emphasis is mine):
It’s only a kiss. Don’t make drama over it; he’s not hurting you. Besides, you like kissing, right? And it’s not like you’ve got a boyfriend, so you can kiss whomever you want. What’s the big deal? “See? Good kisses.” He says it as if he’s showed me something. As if telling me to like it will make it so. I don’t remember his name. We only met that night. I extracted myself from his presence as quickly as was polite and never spoke to him again.
From LiveJournal, cereta posts “On rape and men (Oh yes, I’m going there)” (via) (emphasis in original):
Because men raping women is systemic, and cultural, and yes it is the patriarchy and it is misogyny and it is men thinking they are entitled to women’s bodies. “Well, what did she expect, getting drunk like that?” isn’t salt in the wound, it is the foundation of the problem. The idea that if a woman is not actively preventing a man from sticking his penis into her (and even then, if she’s an enemy), he is doing nothing wrong, and hey, who can blame him, IS THE PROBLEM.
From Sociological Images, “Do You Love Animals? Do You Have Lady Bits? Take Off Your Clothes!“
I know, PETA is low hanging fruit, but the pictures so nicely illustrate the difference between the roles that men and women are supposed to play and what about a woman is supposedly important.
From the Rochester Post-Bulletin, “Man given jail, probation for sexual assault“.
A Rochester man has been ordered to serve 90 days in jail and be on probation for 30 years for sexually assaulting a teenage girl
Edited to add one more.. from the Houston County News, “Hokah man charged in sexual assault” (emphasis mine):
A 21-year-old Hokah man is accused of sexually assaulting an intoxicated woman while she slept.
Ryan Blexrud entered the woman’s Onalaska, Wis., bedroom early June 30 after a stream of harassing telephone calls, according to the complaint filed July 15 in La Crosse County Circuit Court.
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Blexrud was charged with second-degree sexual assault and returns to court July 29 for a preliminary hearing.
He is free on a $5,000 signature bond.
Open letter re: Choice.
Right. Yes, I know what day it is. Yes, I’ve already voted. No, it’s none of your business who or how I voted, though many of you can pr’bly make reasonable educated guesses.
Now, please, stop with the repeated exhortations, demands, orders, threats, etc. that everyone seems to think are appropriate to get other people to vote. Yes, remind people you think might not remember, post it to your blog or email your friends. Remind them that today is election day, talk about how much of a rare privilege it is for every day citizens to be able to participate in the election of their leaders, remind about the struggles to secure that right.
And then, respect them as individuals and respect their choices. It’s none of your business whether or not they choose to exercise their suffrage rights.
Think of this like the abortion debate if it helps – voting is a right, or a privilege, and not compulsory; it’s a *choice*, a decision, and for many people it’s a very personal and complex one. We all not only have the choice of whom to vote for, but also whether or not to vote at all. Just because *you* choose to exercise that right or privilege does not give you some moral authority over others who choose otherwise. Just because you may think it’s morally reprehensible not to vote does not mean you get to impose your beliefs on others. As fervently as I believe that each of us should have control over the choices we make regarding our respective bodies, I believe that each and every one of us gets to have control over our respective suffrage rights and no one has to justify to anyone else whether or not they choose to vote.
The End, Part I
It is finished. I bound off this evening and blocked it and it’s now folded up and stashed away ready for delivery tomorrow.
I’ll post pictures tomorrow; I have to go to bed now so that I can work a 6-8 a.m. volunteer shift at Herberger’s Community Day in the morning! If you’re looking to get a head start on your holiday shopping, check out your local Herbergers/Boston Store/Younkers/Carson Pirie Scott and get a coupon booklet for the sale tomorrow. The money from the sale of the coupon book goes to support local charities and you save money on your holiday shopping!
Rain, rain, go away..
Several days later, city administrators and home owners affected (effected? I never remember when to use which..) by the flooding in southeastern MN are exhausted. For as quickly as the damage was done, the clean up and recovery is slow, tedious work, made all the worse by the seemingly ceaseless rain that’s still falling daily.
The grey is simply draining; one could wish the water itself would drain so well.
Twin Creeks Golf Course, Hokah, MN
Hill s(l)ide, first house in Hokah heading east on Highway 44
Bottom of the hill in Hokah, near the Junction Inn
A flooded field outside Hokah, MN
Flooded farmland outside Hokah, MN
Flooded pasture between Hokah & La Crescent, MN
Approaching the Highway 26 bridge over the Root River & marshlands
Highway 26 bridge over the Root River & marshlands
Wednesday morning clean up continues in La Crescent, MN
Train tracks in La Crescent, MN, Wednesday morning
A small train bridge in La Crescent, MN, Wednesday morning; the flooding left the bridge intact, but sluiced away the ground supporting the tracks on either side leading up to and away from the bridge
As a woman in Rushford said this morning on Minnesota Public Radio, this isn’t the worst tragedy the nation has seen, but it’s still pretty bad. Many families are homeless and, due to the loss of many small businesses, without a means of income to support their families. Most of these homes are not in a flood plain and therefore weren’t covered by flood insurance. It’s unclear yet what, if anything, FEMA will be able to do to assist. If you want to help, you can donate money or time to the Red Cross. If you’re in the area, you can donate any of the following items to Nicole Wilkes at Houston County Women’s Resources (114 Main Street, Hokah, MN) for distribution to families in need:
- Cleaning Products
- Blankets/Bedding
- Personal Care Items
- Non-perishable Food Items (With Minimal Preparation)
- Gift Cards for grocery, department, and hardware stores
OUTRAGE!
I.. just..
Words can’t describe the level of outrage and anger and .. no words ..
I’ll just have to borrow Stephanie’s. Please. Go read this. And then, once you can form a coherent sentence again, call your legislators.
I’ll try to come up with something more coherent on this later this afternoon. Something about how “murder” seems to be a word like “rape” that might be construed to make the defendant sound guilty but that no judge in their right fuqing mind would consider banning the use of the word from their courtroom during a murder trial.
This is one of those occasional “educational policy” posts..
Last Spring, the American Association of State Colleges and Universities (AASCU) and the National Association for State Universities and Land Grant Colleges (NASULGC) convened several task forces to begin working on bringing their proposed Voluntary System of Accountability(sm) (PDF) effort into reality. The VSA(sm) task forces now have a preliminary draft template (PDF) that’s up for comment and feedback as to the feasibility of what’s been created.
There were a couple of guiding principles the Student & Family Information Task Force used in creating this (preliminary draft) template which are pertinent to the data contained in the first two and a half pages:
- The first was that the data should be based off common, pre-existing sources of data. To accomplish this, when ever possible, the template is built on data from the Common Data Set and/or IPEDS and uses formulas and macros to pull the bulk of the data for the first two pages directly from the Excel version of the CDS.
- The second guiding principle was that the data should be presented consistently from institution to institution. The draft of this template includes a uniform set of tables and charts that will auto-generate when inserted into the Excel CDS file. There will be some points of customization (e.g., the use of the school logo in the first page header and the ability to imbed links to institutional web pages), but the idea is for each institution’s VSA(sm) to have the same information in the same place so that (for instance) pages from several institutions can be printed and placed side by side for comparison by prospective students and parents.
The data and elements that are not from the CDS/IPEDS (mostly on pages 3 & 4) are still under discussion by the VSA(sm) Task Forces and may change. You may also note that the Undergraduate Success data are not simply the typical IPEDS graduation rate; the VSA(sm) teams are working with the National Student Clearinghouse on a means of providing this expanded set of success rates to institutions.
If you work in higher ed – or are a parent or prospective student who will be trying to decide which institution to attend – please take a look at the draft template and provide your feedback to the task forces; AASCU is hosting several public forums on their website specifically for the purpose of gathering input and feedback from others. Please take a moment to voice your opinion on what is increasingly becoming an urgent issue in higher education.






